Well, the wedding has come and gone and let me tell you, it was such good times. The ceremony couldn’t have gone any more perfectly. The bride’s entrace seemed to be timed so perfectly with the words in the opening song [A Moment Like This]. At one point, the maid of honour, my cousin Tracy, looked over at me with the happiest tear-filled eyes, followed by a thumbs up later in the ceremony. I’d have to say that that was my fondest memory of the day.
I know I’ve said it already but my cousin Laurie has rightfully earned the title “Best Bride I’ve Ever Worked With.” She was soo easy to please and super gracious/grateful.We had a last minute addition tot he program because the priest insisted that we have a song play during the book signing. My mother suggested I sing Amazing Grace [which honestly, I did not want to do/ Don't really want to do again. I've doen it for one wedding and it went really well, so I don't want to jynx it/ not live up to the hype the second time around]. Instead of singing, I threw on a lovely acapella version of it by Leanne Rimes and the Bride loved it.
[Aside: She gave me this super cute silver music note necklace.]
I guess I should also mention that her new husband was/is really great also, He’s such a nice man. They’re lucky to have found each other. You can really tell that these two are majorly in love. They were so happy, stealing kisses from each other. Happily obliging the many [often obnoxious] hecklers who were furiously clanking knives to glasses all throughout dinner.
The maid of honours speach and the father/daughter dance are my absolutely favorite parts of weddings. Those are the parts that really bring me thisclose to tears. I honestly cannot wait to give my maid of honour speach at @tea__kay’s wedding, when it happens. It’ll be blubbering tears all over the place, let me tell you. If I ever get married I’ll really be looking forward to her speach too. Oh! and of course, my father/daughter dance. There’ll be some more blubbering tears then too.
Though I am not really worried about it now, I do wonder sometimes if I’ll ever get that dance, since marriage seems so long away for me. Heck, I don’t even date! My father isn’t getting any younger, and it would simply break my heart if I never get to live that moment.
In the meantime, my daddy and I always partner up to dance to “Footloose” together. He and my mom arn’t married and so, when my aunt Lousise got married, older bachelor brother [my dad] had to dance for change in his socks. Family tradition. Well, I’ve been told [though I've yet to see the video evidence] that my daddy-o did a perfectly Kevin Bacon-esque choreographed dance to Footloose. When I found out about this, I just HAD to start a tradition of my own.
Looking back, since my cousin Gaetan’s wedding last summer, I have had a constant stream of wedding gigs. His wedding lead to my Uncle Ken’s wedding, which is where I was asked to perform at this wedding. For a second it was looking as though that stream might end, but there are whispered talks of having my parents finally tie the knot. (!!)
They’ve been together for about 28 years now and though they both believe that a piece of paper wont change a thing, a core of us are really pushing for it. When we moved away from our home town of Timmins Ont. almost 10 years ago, we’ve returned to visit our relatives down here on average one or twice a year, for christmasses, weddings, anniversaties, etc. Both sides of my family are up here, and we can only imagine how great of a party a combination of all of our relatives would be! Having the wedding up here, of course, we’d be able to see everyone at once!
My father made a comment at the wedding dinner/party last night that ‘when he gets married, I have to sing Shania’s “From This Moment On” during the first dance.’ Which is funny, because not only is he hinting that it’s about time that he and mom get married, but I remember looking through wedding-style songs when I was trying to choose the perfect ones for Laurie’s wedding. When I came across that one, I knew I couldn’t use it because it was reserved for Mom & Dad’s day.
That song is originally a duet too, and I would love to perform it as such. My dad’s cousin here in Timmins, Ray Piquard, is a musician and I think it would be SO great if he and I could collab on that song for the first dance. I know my dad would just bawl, he’d love it so much. He mentioned today at the gift opening that he would get married just to hear me sing. He’s my #1 fan, truly.
It took me a while to convince him that changing career paths from the “practical” forensic science to the “impractical” theatre wasn’t a bad idea, and now he is just 100% behind me. Well, maybe that is an exaggeration, since he does not want me to move away to NYC what-so-ever. Heh. He’ll cry then too.
[Sorry in advance daddy. Love you.]
So, that’s all I’ve got to update re: Weddings of Summer ’09. September means back to school time and it couldn’t come any sooner. I’ll be back in Guelph tomorrow, then I’ve got to audition for Acting II. Just sending this out to the universe/ wishing on the Golden Pony, but that is one audition I would be very grateful to rock. The play we’re doing this semester is called Unity (1819) by Kevin Kerr, which I’ve been told has a lot of stong female roles. Also, the fact that his last name is the same as @tea__kay’s makes this girl feel me very good about auditioning. Like its a sign. Positivity abounding from this girl for sure.
This year is going to go very well.
Everything is going to work out the way it should.
I’ll let you know more about the happenings as they happen.
m.